I’ve been there too
My personal story
After two divorces, this work has helped me discover who I am. I used to live with a lot of fear and anxiety, existing outside of everything, with no sense of belonging or sense of self. I saw my reality as a construct of rigidity – expectations present in culture. I viewed myself as someone who had to be a certain way or do certain things, with a huge sense of obligation. This robbed me of who I really am, and I couldn’t even see it.
What runs in parallel is the need to eat away my feelings, using food to suppress all this subconsciously. After experiencing this work as a single mother, I found myself being less judgmental toward myself and realizing my limiting reality was created by my own perceptions. Armed with Theravada meditation practice over 15 years from amaravati.org, Dharma at ShangaLive, and Hellinger Cosmic Power, along with Qigong training by Mimi Kuo-Deemer, I am now more in my body and less in my mind.
This is what I now know my purpose to be: to gift this to others. My intention is to help you see your stories and discover who you are, so you can stand in your power with clarity and rediscover your resilience. With a focus on spirituality and a deep understanding of ontology and anthropology, you can find purpose in life and trust the unknown.

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My backround
Who I work with
My clients
My intention is to help you see your stories and discover who you are. Break through your blocks so you can move past your fears and lead the life you want. Stand in your power with clarity and rediscover your resilience.
You will be held in a heart-filled container, with empathy and warmth, by someone who has a deep understanding of the human experience, including religion and social constructs. With no judgment, I am here intentionally to help mothers in difficult circumstances feel empowered and raise a more conscious next generation.
With a focus on spirituality and a deep understanding of ontology and anthropology, you can find purpose in life and trust the unknown.
Women in non-functional marriages or relationships
You might be:
• Walking on eggshells or always over-giving
• Feeling unseen, unappreciated or taken for granted
• Thinking, “Should I stay or should I leave?”
In this space, you won’t be told what to do.
Instead, we:
• Work with the triggers your partner brings up
• Heal the old wounds underneath them
• Help you see clearly what is truly right for you
As you shift, the dynamic often changes – communication softens, respect increases – and from this grounded place, your decisions become much clearer.
Divorced or single mums who feel stuck
You might be:
• Repeating the same kind of relationships in a different body
• Feeling blocked in money, work or housing
• Carrying everything alone and feeling exhausted
In our work, we look at:
• Why certain “unlucky” situations keep repeating
• How your nervous system learned to expect disappointment or chaos
• The exact moments in childhood where these patterns began
As you release these old programmes, life starts to respond differently:
new opportunities, healthier work environments, kinder people – and a sense that life is finally on your side.
Once we start working together, your outer world starts to change:
• Situations that were stuck for years begin to move
• Relationships with partners, children and family feel lighter
• Work and career start aligning with your value
• You feel safer in yourself – and life stops feeling like a constant fight
• New oportunities start showing up effortlessly
from my clients
Testimonials
I have had 3 sessions of maturation coaching with Shaima. After the initial session I felt like I had a huge release which left me feeling quite open and fragile for a few weeks as it brought awareness to what was hidden. Shaima really coached me through what was coming up over the week and I immediately felt better. Since my third session I have felt a huge shift in myself and the thinking patterns I had held on to and repeated subconsciously for years. These patterns would weigh me down. I feel a sense of lightness and confidence and the thoughts and patterns don’t seem to hold as much power now. I have had therapy, done coaching and tried other methods like TRE, NLP etc but the maturation coaching has been incredible. Shaima just has a naturally deep understanding of how to get to the root and assists you in getting there in a calm, caring manner which really makes you feel held in and after the sessions. I’m so grateful I started this journey and look forward to seeing more growth and benefits from the sessions.
Meeting Shaima was life-changing. She genuinely cares and approaches her work with the intent to truly help. Unlike any therapy I’ve had before, Shaima guided me in identifying deep-rooted patterns and emotions I didn’t realize were holding me back. Her sessions feel like a reset, leaving me lighter and more empowered every time. She challenges you in a way that makes anything feel possible, helping you uncover and break free from the blocks in your life. Working with her is like hiring a personal trainer for the mind and spirit – she motivates, inspires, and equips you with the tools to move forward confidently. If you’ve found Shaima, take it as a sign that you’re meant to heal and grow with her guidance. She’ll open your eyes to new possibilities and help you come home to yourself.
I am so glad my cousin introduced me to Shaima. At first, I was skeptical because I didn’t know what to expect and I also never open myself up to anyone I don’t know, but Shama is such a nice person, friendly and warm person. She has helped me a lot to heal my inner child by just talking and going deep into myself. I have learned a lot, also for my future how to handle difficult situations and how to help myself is a big plus. I feel so much lighter and at peace with myself after only two sessions. It’s like my energy blockage has been removed and I finally understand what was hurting me for so long. My overall health got better and my relationship with myself. can recommend Shaima more than words can say.
Coaching with Shaima has helped me in such a positive way I can’t really describe it. You need to experience it to truly understand it. Since the first session I could see the benefits of it in my day-to-day life. Shaima guides you to find freedom from your own suffering. This is quite instantaneous. My favourite part of this process has been discovering the root causes of my various sufferings and the release in body as well as she helps you identify where in your body you are feeling the grips of all the hurt and annoyance you are carrying. I always have this wow moments and my heart full of gratitude to Shaima after each session as she helps you identify what’s going on within you with such accuracy. Additionally, Shaima supports you in the two week gap between each session as various thoughts and emotions surfaces but because you are now aware and have the new perspective you can see you are living life in a completely different way- better way! I recommend this to everyone who has lost hope and lack patience to trust the process in this journey of realising our highest self.
Empowering Transformation
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Sets Me Apart
My approach emphasizes deep internal
exploration, guided healing, and a path to rediscover your authentic self – which lead to things sudenly shiffting in your outer reality.
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