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She was constantly trying to justify her actions at work because she felt she was being judged. She was very suspicious of colleagues when they requested something from her… She didn’t feel valued. She wasn’t getting promoted to positions that she was more than capable of doing. She felt overlooked and had been taken advantage of. She couldn’t understand why she wasn’t being seen. She had been in school for 9 years. Much loved by all her students and known for her performance of getting students to excel and achieving top grades that were unmatched in the history of the school. She was very comfortable at the school and had all the intention of staying put. She was very wound up and upset with the conversation on a daily basis by several colleagues, so we looked at what was it that was coming up and where was the suspicious held as she felt the constant need to overplease and look for approval.
What was held in the body was childhood incidents where her mother had believed a friend over her, and she felt devastated. No matter what she said she was not being heard and overlooked. Every time this incident was triggered subconsciously, where she was constantly felt judged and questioned and the spiral of trying to convince people around her that she is good and fair. Which resulted in overdoing and constantly tired. Feeling people still were suspicious at work. Seeing this was very powerful for her.
There was work on boundaries which came naturally as a result of seeing her blindspot. Where she could communicate to her colleagues without being triggered, without justifying herself and offering to do things not from pleasing nor exhaustion but from clarity. Also, at this point I used my corporate experience at top banks to guide her interviewing process and what is valued, and transferable skill sets. This led to the next layer of inquiry, her parents. No matter how much she did for them – it wasn’t enough. There was the pleasing but a different depth and much heavier rooting. There is a great need to help her parents financially to the point she felt was her responsibility, and she was happy to do it. Her body and mind connection had led her to incidences I her childhood where her parents dynamic and the atmosphere in the house was directly related to financial difficulties. And where she had made up her mind as a girl that she would help them out so they would never need to fight ever again.
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